The Enneagram is a tool that helps explain why people think, feel, and react the way they do, especially in close relationships. It describes nine common patterns people develop to feel safe and valued in the world. This worksheet is designed to help couples understand why they react the way they do under stress (shut down, get angry, over-explain, avoid, control, please, or panic), and what helps them feel secure and connected (reassurance, space, clarity, honesty, gentleness, consistency). (0326, couples therapy, marriage therapy, relationships)