Are You Experiencing Gaslighting in Your Relationship?

This worksheet helps people understand the concept of “gaslighting,” a process where someone deliberately and systematically gives someone false information leading them to question themselves and what is true. It explains the seven stages of gaslighting, from lies and exaggeration to domination and control.  The worksheet also gives people a chart to record incidents of gaslighting and to think about how the situations and the outcomes can change. (1022, marital and family therapy, relationships, interpersonal effectiveness)

Overcoming Emotional Neediness

This worksheet gives people a checklist to help them determine if they are emotionally needy.  There are a dozen strategies to help deal with this problem followed by questions to help people understand how neediness affects their relationships. (1022, relationships, neediness)

How is Jealousy Affecting Your Life?

This worksheet is designed to help people understand how jealousy affects their relationships and what they can do to change self-destructive behaviors. (1022, jealousy, relationships, family therapy, marriage counseling)

Understanding the Window of Tolerance

This worksheet explains the concept of the “window of tolerance,” which is the optimal zone of arousal to function in a healthy manner. People who have experienced trauma may have a relatively narrow window of tolerance. On either side of the “window” are hyperarousal, a state of activation and energy, and hypoarousal, a slow down or even a shutdown state of response.  This worksheet gives people suggestions on how to expand and stay within their window of tolerance.  (1022, PTSD, trauma, emotional regulation)